I used to date a guy who's perfect match for me. Like we enjoy the same things and we balance each other out. The only problem was in the bedroom. He wasn't that good and would still fail even if I've told him where my good spots were located. So I'm wondering if any of you have tips to make sure that you still enjoy sex even if your partner is terrible at it
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So you broke up with him because he wasn't able to please you sexually? I would suggest to keep your sex toys by your bedside and use it during or after sex
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Most guys might find it offensive if the girl suddenly pulls out a sex toy during sex
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GoobleHipur maybe they would understand that it takes time for us girls to cum. Toys make it a lot easier for both of em.
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In what area was he terrible exactly? I know that most guys don't care about foreplay and prefer to the actual sex part
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Maybe they're just not compatible with each other sexually
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cutestman there's a chance that he's bad at sex in general
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When it comes to relationships, it is rare if you would be with someone who have it all. And if you're able to find that person, you should do your best to make the person stay with you
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QueefPat have you been in that situation before? It was almost perfect and you tried your best to make it work?
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I think having something in common but have bad sex is better than being with someone that you would often to argue with but have awesome sex
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I never dated anyone who isn't great in bed. Reading the comments made me giggle how unfortunate you guys are when it comes to your partners.
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LoveYumTasty While I cannot prove it here, based on my experiences, they were all great.
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Clitcomander No one was dumped. All of them were great.
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BlackmanAndRobbin As I said, all of them were great so I never ghosted anyone.
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Are you that superficial? As you said, you are a perfect match except for the sex part. Yes, we need sex but is that all that matters to you? How about the guy as a person? Why don't you consider the other aspects of him?
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Maybe good or great sex is high on her requirements when it comes to relationships that's why she's talking about that the sex is the only thing that is bad in their relationship
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Snugglebear Well, clearly, her requirement for sex is high as she is dwelling more on that part.
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Yeah, there are rooms for improvement. Like you need to wait for another 100 sessions before he perfects it. Patience is a virtue, girl.
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What if the person is like an old dog already in which he or she can't learn new tricks already?
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VaginalDestruction Then, that would be tough. How about teach him over and over until he learns it?
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Originally posted by QueefPat View PostWhen it comes to relationships, it is rare if you would be with someone who have it all.
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So when you see someone who has it all, then grab that someone and never let him go anymore. lol.
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kittycat123 Right! You said it very well. lol.
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How far in the relationship before you realized that you're not compatible with each other when it comes to sex?
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When you're probably bored with the same shit you both do.
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Probably months of doing the same things, without anything new at all.
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DilDoDabbins and sexualdepth Then you could try to make new stuffs to end the boring sex life.
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