I don't want to cheat on my wife

[Herndonjoe]

Title says it all. I have never cheated but it's getting harder (pun intended) to stay faithful. I am needing a lot more sex and things are just meh in the bedroom. I've tried implementing things but she just doesn't want to get into it. I workout 4-6 times a week, and love the outdoors. My job requires me to travel a lot and things are getting extremely hard to stay honest. And I can only enjoy my fleshlight so much... I am craving sex so bad it's starting to hurt.

I read, go to the movies, go to the park, watch netflix, play some video games to keep myself occupied but I am breaking down and those things are barely holding my attention.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you deal with it?

Seeking help, thanks.

[VaginalDestruction]

Jack off more often and do it while she's beside you? If she asks you why you're doing that tell her it is because since you (your wife) are not interested in doing it with me, I would just please myself. I know that might be a really stupid idea, but there is still a chance that it could work

[Clitcomander]

I think this is a good idea, rather than looking for someone else to hook up with.

[FedoraTheExplora]

What's the reason why she's not interested in having sex with you anymore? You can try and make your relationship spark again with a little help of molly (ecstasy)

[cutestman]

Like what activities can it be?

[PennyTration]

Or they can also try to go to the hospital and let his wife be checked.

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

Jack off more often and do it while she's beside you

I'm going to add watching porn while you're jacking off beside her

[Clitcomander]

He might end up sleeping in the couch if the wife had a bad day

[PennyTration]

I know that other might count this as cheating already, but have you tried suggesting to her to have an open marriage? If she asks why, tell her that it is because the two of you are not having sex anymore

[QueefPat]

Did you already talk to her about this one? Why does she don't like to have sex? Do you guys already have kids? If yes and if she's just afraid of pregnancy instances, then offer her to use birth controls to avoid such.

[Tastyrese]

It would be worthwhile to actively seek marriage counseling with a neutral person, not a church official or someone she will feel intimidated by, and to ask your wife to participate. After counseling your wife may reveal what is troubling her and you may be able to resume a happy life together, but if you cheat in the meanwhile, she may not be able to forgive and that could end the marriage forever. I would really urge you not to go down the cheating route. Having sex with someone else than your spouse would just add an extra layer to an already difficult situation.

[MikeInShiningArmor]

It would be way better to go a real marriage counselor and not someone who's from the church

[DilDoDabbins]

Try to find more activities or hobbies that would make feel exhausted when you're done so that you would always end up sleeping once you're at home

[lovestudder]

I can't imagine how hard this is for you, you've been fighting all these temptations so hard. I guess your wife should know about this so you guys can work on things.

[elatederic]

Jack off more often and do it while she's beside you?

That reminded me of that scene in American Beauty where the character of Kevin Spacey was jacking off in their bed because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him already

[H3r3foryou]

Being in a long relationship can make things stale between the two of you. You should always try to ****e things up in the bedroom to make sure that the thrill would still be there

[TickleMyTesla]

So what did you guys do in order to maintain the happiness in the bedroom?

[hulagirlsexsexyum]

My question is why is your wife acting that way when you've said that you are doing your best to be fit. I guess you guys need to talk about this, maybe there are some issues that are unresolved.

[AglowReportsDari]

She might have reached the stage in her life where she's no longer interested in doing it. That's why she's just ignoring his advances

[Blockro]

Men who cheat are weak! Now wanna test how strong willed you are with me sweetie? lol

[antitrump]

Does that mean that you're into weak men who can't control their sexual urges towards you?

[Blockro]

Nah, I just wanna test how strong-willed a man is when it comes to me.

[sexsexgirlnowme]

That feeling of being in between is always the most terrible feeling to ever feel. I hope your wife would willingly help you.

[scrumptious1]

Haven't you read what he wrote? His wife has no interests whatsoever already when it comes to sex

[surfsup]

I don't think that his wife would help him in that department. Unless she would be fine if he gets to sleep with other women

[rumdrum]

If you've done everything in order for her to be interested in having sex with you and she stills doesn't do it, then might as well end things with her already. It might sound as a shallow reason, but I think that it is valid enough for you to file it

[shumwap]

You're quite blunt with what you've just said there. Guess that this might be his wake up call to know that his marriage might have reached its end