Rough and wild sex

[Colby_J]

I'm one of those people who prefer rough sex, but I haven't been able to find that many women who are into that. I prefer not to hook up with the same woman more than a few times, so it's been a bit difficult for me to find women who like the same kind of sex as I do. Has anyone experienced similar problems here?

[dating.guy.tim]

I think a lot will depend on luck to since different women like different styles of sex. Some women do prefer wild sex where you can be rough. Most women that I have personally hooked up with though preferred something in between. They didn't want to go too over board with the rough sex. I agree that most men prefer it that way, however, most of that has a lot to do with the kind of porn that's more popular and we have developed this liking to rough sex or of the belief that rough sex is the way to go.

[Curvy_Luvvah]

I couldn't agree more with dating.guy.tim! I have met so many men who think that they like rough sex, but what they don't realize is that you don't need to have it too rough or two fast to have good sex. I think the modern porn has a lot to do with those myths. I'm a woman who likes to have a bit of rough sex, but nothing like what you see in porn. Still, I've had amazing sex where the men were very soft and passionate rather than being overly wild.

[Colby_J]

I'm not talking about the kinda rough sex that you see on porn. I mean doing it faster than normal sex. I'm not sure if all women are into that.

[MeganLove]

@Colby_J As far as I know, all women do enjoy some level of rough or fast paced sex, because that's how it's supposed to be. I'm not talking about the kinda rough sex that you see in porn movies, because most of that is usually hardcore and almost falls under assault. My advice for you is to either talk about these things in advance or slowly increase the speed and intensity. I've had experiences where certain guys tried that on me and it obviously worked.

[Sexy Jones]

If you're into hardcore stuff, trying finding chicks who are into fetishes. There are so many of them on SexSearch and they are usually into the rough stuff.

[LauraEbony]

I agree with Sexy Jones to some extent. There are certain fetishes though which are pretty soft too, so it depends. I think the best approach would be to ask a woman in the initial stages whether she's into that kinda sex. If she's not, you can move on to someone else or manage your expectations. It's nothing new too. There have been many instances where men have asked me similar questions.

[jessica sparkles]

@LauraEbony you're right. Different people like sex in different ways, so it's always a good idea to get these questions answered before you go and hook up.

[DannyLong]

Don't know about others, but I wouldn't try something rough on a woman without a heads up if you know what I mean. It would be okay if she ends up liking it, but imagine if she's someone who doesn't like that at all?! It will not be fun! So make sure that you're sure that a woman likes something before you try doing it in bed.