You and your partner have been living together for few years now. One day, you had a big argument and started to sleep on different rooms. It has been that way for weeks now. What can you say?
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Well, that is bad. We should talk together and solve whatever needs to be resolved in order for us to be together again. We need to sleep on the same bed once again. It has been weeks, right?
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True. Was the fight so bad that they can manage to sleep in different rooms? If I experience that, I think I will take the initiative of breaking the silence between the two of us and just apologize even though I do not have something to apologize for.
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Yes, that is the first thing that must be done. Talk first. Talk and make compromise in order have a good relationship once again.
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Yeah you're right, both of them need to compromise to know and understand the situation or problem. I guess both of them did something wrong.
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One must go and leave the house. It could not be that we would live in this way for a long time. How could I freely let in my new partner when he is just on the other room?
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What? You were already thinking of having someone new that quickly? Remember that there was no actual break up yet. Break up like complete separation.
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And who do you like to leave the house first? Anyway, to be fair, both of you should leave the house and stay wherever you want to go. In that way, you would have peace in life.
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For this time, I would be the one that is going straight to his room and be talking to him. I want us to resolve this issue because I cannot take how long this has been for both of us. We might even end up having make up sex for this and everything will be back to the way it was.
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Great idea. Yes, we should be the ones to approach them first and ask them where we went wrong. Let's think about how much we could've hurt their feelings too, I hope everything goes well as long as we'd compromise and we will never do that kind of stuff again.
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What would you do if he does not want to settle the issues with you? He wants to keep the separation, and he is planning on leaving soon,
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Well, I won't let it come to a point wherein we will be sleeping in different rooms for several weeks already. That is not healthy for our relationship and it's always best to set aside pride in order to save the relationship.
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If a month has passed and we are still sleeping in different rooms, I think a break up is going to happen soon. I won't do anything about it and I'll just wait for him to break up with me. Most especially if I know that I didn't do anything wrong.
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Couples who can bear to not talk to each other and sleep beside each other for several weeks are the ones who have so much pride in themselves. They are willing to risk their relationship because they do not want to lower down their pride. I think that a relationship is toxic if both the partners are like that.
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Instead of sleeping in different rooms, why not just live in different houses? That will eventually be the result if that kind of situation persists. One of them will try to breakup with the other one sooner or later.
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It's not advisable to sleep in different rooms. I should at least face the other way but at least we're on the same bed. I would not want our petty little fight to turn into something awful and unexpected.
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Wait, did she just slept in a different room? I'd follow her there and I won't let this go on for weeks. We must settle this even if she moves to different parts of the house, I don't care! We need to fix this or I might as well kick her out of my house for good if that's what she wants.Last edited by rumdrum; 01-03-2020, 12:36 PM.
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Sleeping in different rooms for weeks because of a stupid fight? That's insane! I wouldn't let my partner do that and I won't be going to a different room no matter how bad the fight is. We should settle this immediately before it gets worse.
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