Has any of you been with someone who's a bit calculated when it comes to sex? Like the person keeps on doing the same things during foreplay and sex? How can you tell that person to try new things with you?
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I had my fair share of men who were like that. If I notice that my man is starting to do the same things, I would often take charge of the situation and tell him what he has to do to me
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The best comment I've read today! I also happen to take charge for him and that's the best way to deal with the situation.
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Those men were so boring that they only did same things over and over again. They must learn new things! Let me teach them, then. lol.
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And what would you do if the man could not perform the things that you want him to do with you?
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Some people do not want to come out of their comfort zones no matter how we try to convince them to perform some new positions. We could not do anything with it. We could not force them.
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The places outside of our comfort zone is a scary place but they say that it is the place where we can actually grow.
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MikeInShiningArmor So you saying that ive been with lame and boring guys? I just let them be but if they're not afraid to step up then they better prove it
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You should watch a porn movie together. Then while watching the movie, you could suggest to perform the actions that they are doing.
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But what if they suddenly did some acrobatic moves, would you be able to keep up with that? Lol, I don't want to end up injuring myself just trying to impress someone with some new and bizarre sex moves. I'd just stick to the basics with him and see how we can somehow jazz up our daily routine.
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hanesy Yes, that's a great idea. It would help you both discover some new moves that you can try.
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No, I never encountered those kinds of men. All those men who had me were all aggressive and they were so good at bed. Those men knew what they were doing.
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I had. He was very careful. I mean he checked his condom well and from time to time. He was afraid that it may rip or something. I think that he was a bit paranoid.
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If my partner does the same thing over and over then it's time for me to look for a new partner who has a lot of moves.
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Amethyst54 why don't you just tell him how to maximize his moves? Or be patient with him in teaching some of the moves you wanted him to try. That way, you won't get bored with him and his redundant moves.
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Amethyst54 Well, at least he tried his best, but not at his best at all lol!
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I'm quite worried if I ever do the same moves to my partner and do not even tell me about it. I would appreciate the help if he advises or teaches me some of the moves that can make both of us feel more satisfied.
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Actually, I am the one who is calculated. I do not really show that I am already an expert when it comes to those fucking sessions. I stay a bit demure. lol.
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