My friend has a new boyfriend. She confided to me that her boyfriend is a workaholic man. He has no time for her even for their sex. It is either postponed or sometimes cancelled. So how to deal with a person who is always busy?
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If a guy is always busy then he should be dumped! A good guy would know a proper time management. He should have a balanced life. The fact that he is focused on just one aspect of his life makes him a poor time organizer.
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I am not so sure if she would dump him.
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scrumptious1 True. There are other men who could provide proper time for her.
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Snugglebear Well, it was just my advice for her as continuing the relationship could not change the man.
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If a woman is not going to make time for me and Always put work first , that just says she is not ready for a relationship and I should tell her so, and move on, and wish her well in her work endeavors.
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Airglax , yes I am the type of person who can see if something is going to work or not, fairly quickly, and I don't think you have to be rude or mean about it, especially if they have not done anything but try to get in a relationship when they were just not ready for one.
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Damitboy45 Wow. Very well said. Yeah, you are right. You could still be friends even after breaking up with the relationship.
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Letting go of someone we love is also difficult but there are times that we need to.
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Being dedicated to work is fine but if he is so anal retentive he cannot see the half of his life that gives him a reason to work hard set him down and explain to him he might need to work on that or lose out.
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If he was a workaholic, how was he able to date her? All he needs to do is to learn how to manage his time properly in order to make the relationship work
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I think he knows how to manage his time and maybe being in a relationship is way down on his list of priorities
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It could be that the man had changed to a new job recently and the job was too demanding for lots of time.
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Movievestre was right. He shifted to a new career. They dated before the man had acquired his new job.
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There's a chance in that the timing was off when they started the relationship. I would suggest to try and talk to him about it
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What kind of a talk, specifically?
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AirAngelsAmaze she needs to tell him that just because they're a couple already, it doesn't mean that he stops paying attention to her
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Yeah, I think they need to talk seriously about it.
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The two of you should manage your time properly to make your relationship at work considering that the two of you are just starting one
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