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  • Needs Improvement

    What's a nice way to say to the guy that you're seeing that he needs to improve his bedroom skills?

  • #2
    Just tell it to him directly that you're not satisfied with his performance

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    • AnniePath
      AnniePath commented
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      Not sure that an easy thing to do if he doesn't accept criticism well

    • MoiraClay
      MoiraClay commented
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      AnniePath is correct, he might take it the wrong way and that might lead to an argument.

  • #3
    Why not just drop hints on him whenever the two of you are having sex. At least it would be subtle enough

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    • Alivens
      Alivens commented
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      What is he's so dense and can't get the hints?

  • #4
    I would suggest to take charge the next time you have sex so that you can tell him directly what you want him to do

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    • LoveYumTasty
      LoveYumTasty commented
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      I would go with this answer if I were you.

    • 1nytstand
      1nytstand commented
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      LoveYumTasty I do that all the time whenever the sex is boring me out.

  • #5
    Try it in a joke that he knows that are half meant.

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    • smilebaby
      smilebaby commented
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      And what if the guy is a little dense or slow? There's a chance that he would either get mad at you or not get the joke entirely

  • #6
    Just tell him and offer some suggestions.

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    • carzin89
      carzin89 commented
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      Guess that you're the type who would often listen to the suggestions that are given to you?

  • #7
    Try to teach him during the sex, like a whisper in his ear what you want him to do.

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    • priority23
      priority23 commented
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      What if he's the type who's more of a go with the flow type whenever he's having sex

    • Damitboy45
      Damitboy45 commented
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      I love it when a woman whispers in my ear what she wants me to do to her, gets me super aroused

  • #8
    Maybe tell it to him right after you had sex or you can try also tell it to him before he fucks you

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    • veronIZA
      veronIZA commented
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      I guess it is better to tell him that after sex.

  • #9
    It looks like most of the replies are for those who partners who know how to listen

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    • DanniMoon
      DanniMoon commented
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      Are you hoping that someone would give an advice when the guy doesn't want to listen?

  • #10
    If he's the type who has a good sense of humor, I would suggest to make notes right after having sex with him and tell him what areas he needs to improve in

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    • SandyDempsey
      SandyDempsey commented
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      So you think that giving him a report card would work? lol

    • NinaMcAdams
      NinaMcAdams commented
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      SandyDempsey Not a report card, what I mean to say is that give suggestions on the thing that needs improvement.

  • #11
    Be direct then practice, practice, practice

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    • stubbornass
      stubbornass commented
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      I agree with you, practice helps to improve your skills.

    • ChristineOh
      ChristineOh commented
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      alagem16 I'm guessing that when you mentioned practice it means that he would practice with the girl, right?

    • alagem16
      alagem16 commented
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      ChristineOh...yes

  • #12
    I'll just say that he needs to hone his skill more.

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    • independentG
      independentG commented
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      Are you willing to help the guy hone the skills that are lacking from him?

  • #13
    I will tell him this, "Can you watch more porn and learned from it?".

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    • Blockro
      Blockro commented
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      I guess porn is a good learning material to learn some techniques.

    • OreoEater789
      OreoEater789 commented
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      No. Porn is unrealistic. Bad basis for actual sex

    • Airglax
      Airglax commented
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      OreoEater789 I disagree, it might be fake but still, you can learn how to fuck a woman properly.

  • #14
    I would suggest that you tell us directly while we're doing it so we can adjust immediately and avoid doing it

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    • XYZKate
      XYZKate commented
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      This. Women like playing games and gets upset when men can't understand what their partner wants.

  • #15
    During intercourse, tell him something like "baby, help me reach orgasm" or anything to the extent.

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    • Tastyrese
      Tastyrese commented
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      This might sound like an insult, no?

    • priority23
      priority23 commented
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      Tastyrese Not really, it depends on your tone and how you say it. Say it to him in a seductive voice.
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