This happened one night when my coworker contacted me and told me that his girlfriend went to her hometown to spend her three days off. I took this opportunity to hook up with him because he's good-looking and surprisingly, he's really great in bed. We had sex in their bedroom where he and his girlfriend usually sleep, then we went back to my place and continued the second round. The next day came and his girlfriend came home unexpectedly to their place and was looking for him, he said that he crashed at his friend's place after drinking. So he left, and a few days after, we never spoke casually since then. It became awkward for both of us at work, we used to joke around but these days I feel like he's guilty of hooking up with me.
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Guilty? No, he was not guilty. It is intentional that he does talk with you anymore as to keep his profile low. His girlfriend might notice that something is off and he does not want that to happen.
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You're right, he's just being extra careful since some of his coworkers know that he's already taken and she appears to be one of his first hookups in that workplace.
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Yes. He is playing safe for the betterment of everyone. Of course, you do not want his wife to learn about what you did, right?
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That's okay with me, and besides I don't mind him anymore, I'm just wondering tho. Daisy54
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If that is the case, then you should be the one to initiate the communication with a little flirting. You should keep the communication on so that you would not feel awkward.
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It's fun right? and I don't see anything wrong with that. Softandwet
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BeautifulAglow What if you really like that guy and he is too shy to hit you with a message?
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powerJHG eventually by this story, the guy stopped seeing her because he loves he girl. so when the official girl came back, she was dumped. typical guy, don't you think so? all dicks, no balls
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Uh, oh! The girlfriend must've noticed something off, did you leave any clothing in their bed? He must've been in trouble that's why he's been ignoring you. You carelessly hooked up with him because you've left hints for his girlfriend to know that he was cheating on her while she's away. There must have been a used condom left in their bed, or your earring must've fallen off.
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Snugglebear If it's not a condom, maybe the earrings. they should have been careful.
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Houservit How can a girl forget her bra? it's uncomfortable if a girl would not wear a bra.
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BeautifulAglow So what would be the reason why he is being cold?
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Of course, he really felt guilty. He had thought that hooking up with you was not right at all. Anyway, you could not turn back the hands of time anymore. You could still try to talk casually with him but if he does not want it anymore, then, you would have to stop.
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That's his fault, why would he even hook up with her when it doesn't seem right for him? He just wasted her time and he does not deserve to be with his girlfriend without knowing that he already cheated on her. The sad part is, we don't even know if he had multiple hookup partners besides her. He should at least stop there if he's feeling guilty already.
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hameroon27 His fault? No, it is their faults. Both of them should be blamed. I disagree that the man had also hooked up with other women. It could be seen from his action that he had felt guilty over what they did.
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kissmeback Yeah I am. I did not make some moves anymore and I even forgot what happened to us.
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Would you like to resign from that job to stay away from the awkwardness? If it would be every work day that you feel that awkwardness then it is better for you to leave that workplace and have a peaceful life.
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I think resigning from that job is a complete waste of time! So what if they're both awkward? It's not like she has already slept with tons of guys there to be in such shame, she should continue on with her job and act as if they're strangers with no past. Simple!
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JenniferFray She could pretend that they are strangers but the awkwardness would still be there.
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Actually, I already resigned there. I have not seen them for a while now. SupaPussy789
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Who wouldn't be guilty of that? He must have realized that he loves her girlfriend so much and what he did with you was wrong.
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He's a stupid fucker! He must have felt good about banging two chicks and now he's feeling guilty? Sick! He should hook up more and wait until he gets what he deserves. I bet his girlfriend is banging another guy when he's not around too.
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crzyyouandme Maybe he really loves her girlfriend. and I am sure he is so guilty.
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If he felt guilty about it, then how about you? What did you feel after you had done that hookup? It is pretty sure that you felt so happy.
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So you already knew that he has a girlfriend before you had sex with him? Why did you agree to do it anyway? I bet you are looking down on yourself now.
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You know how people usually cheat and still feel good about it. But there are moments when they're with their partners, they seem to realize that what they did puts them to realization. They'll suddenly think that it is wrong to cheat on their long-term partner for just a one-night stand with someone else.
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If I were him, I'd be guilty too. Not only did he lie to his girlfriend about where he slept but he did something else which is worse and that's cheating. I think it's better if he breaks up with his girlfriend now.
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Does he still say hi or hello whenever you see each other? If yes, then there is no problem. If he is ignoring you, then that is already a problem.
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BeautifulAglow Hold on, you'd be surprised if one day he'd smack that ass and hell yes! There will be a part two on that hookup! Life is too short to feel guilty about hooking up with someone you've been wanting to bang with for so long!
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