How to ask someone if they have feelings for you?

[meowmeowbark]

Guys I'm in a rut here, I have a friend who I think has feelings for me, we've been friends for so long but I always felt like he always wanted something more, what do you think I should do, Ask him straight out or cop out?

[sexualdepth]

ohh that's a tough spot to be in, what things does he do that makes you think he likes you?

[meowmeowbark]

He's treating me extra special and kinda making me a priority.

[sexualdepth]

That's a strong sign but at times it can be deceiving.

[punkchick]

Does he treat you differently from his other girl friends? what kind of signs is he showing?

[meowmeowbark]

Yes he does. The signs are he is getting clingy and sweet towards me.

[punkchick]

That's something heavy.

[kizliak]

Is he always available? he pays attention. there's that possibility that he's a really good friend too.

[meowmeowbark]

That could be, he might just be a good friend to me.

[surfsup]

oh man, this is tough. can you provide more details please

[meowmeowbark]

What details do you need?

[surfsup]

Like how does he treats you lately? And what makes you feel that way?

[meowmeowbark]

well he treats me the same way he always has, sweet, caring.

[daddyslittleG1rl]

You can try asking him directly

[Snugglebear]

you can always get him drunk then ask him

[surfsup]

This is clever.

[Softandwet]

Has he dropped hints about liking you? try talking to his friends but be cool cause if they know he does like you they'll probably be cautious

[kissmeback]

But that can be quite risky since his friends might tell him that you asked them that question

[Softandwet]

Well, it is just one of the risks that she has to take if she wants to know if he's into her or not

[dagift2womens]

What makes you think that he has feelings towards you? And if ever you're going to ask him, are you willing to take the risk of being in the friendzone because of it?

[scrumptious1]

I agree with you said, it hard to assume these days.

[dagift2womens]

And once he tells you that you're just friends that would be the end of your friendship. Since there would be a period of awkwardness and things would be different already

[rumdrum]

If he is making you as his priority that can be one sign. Like instead of going out with his friends, he would choose to be with you.

[W3tThet1p]

Is that your go to move to show to a girl that you're interested?

[rumdrum]

it's one of the things i do, i make time and effort for for her

[OreoEater789]

It would be much better if you ask him straight out already if you have feelings towards him as well. But the downside of that is you have to prepare yourself for the worst just in case that he doesn't have feelings towards you and you have developed feelings towards him

[Freew0man82]

Have you encountered something similar before that's why you're telling her to prepare for the worst?

[OreoEater789]

Well yes, my motto is always hope for the best but prepare for the worst

[kittycat123]

Since you guys are friends and I bet you guys are open with each other. It's better for you to ask him so you can't be friendzoned.

[PennyTration]

But there is still a possibility that she would end up in the friend zone if she asks

[kittycat123]

Yeah, but that's better than prolonging the agony.

[iwantsexnowplease]

What makes you think that he likes you? Maybe he's just like that to all the girls that he's close with

[DilDoDabbins]

Looking forward to hearing what will happen

[iwantsexnowplease]

Why do you want to know what happened to us? DilDoDabbins

[DilDoDabbins]

Just curious about it, that's all

[antitrump]

This is when it's so damn hard to assume, so better ask the guy. Because sometimes feelings can be deceiving.

[antitrump]

We were friends since high school, she always want to be with me we actually get along so well until she become so sweet towards me so I assumed that she liked me. When I finally have the courage to ask her, she said no and that I'm just one of her closest friend. That experience made me stop assuming and It's also best to ask people to get some confirmation to clarify things.

[meowmeowbark]

i think i'm just gonna go ahead and ask him

[antitrump]

go for it if you think that's the right thing to do.