The Pretender

[Freew0man82]

Has any of you been with or know a person who was a complete fraud? Like they would say that they've visited certain countries, owns their own businesses, etc...

[VaginalDestruction]

I used to have a roommate who was like that. He was obviously trying to keep up with the lifestyle of his friends that he ended up having a shit ton of debt.

[Blockro]

How is he now? Does he still try to have an extravagant lifestyle or he has stopped doing it?

[VaginalDestruction]

Blockro I don't know about his current situation now as we were no longer roommates for a long time, but the time I left, he is in so much debt.

[Blockro]

I bet you find him arrogant. VaginalDestruction

[HearAlive]

I've dated a person before and told me he was a travel blogger and roams all over the world and knows all the delicious foods of each country but in reality, he only watches videos and photoshops himself in those countries.

[FedoraTheExplora]

How did you find out that he just photoshops himself in pictures that are taken from certain countries?

[Daisy54]

Been with a guy who told me he owns a business and has a lot of money but he didn't have money to pay our bills and he also ghosted me.

[RachelSiryn]

Did he ever tell you what business he has? so you can visit him if it's true.

[DilDoDabbins]

Not a guy that I dated, but it was a guy that I went to high school with. When I attended our reunion he bragged about the businesses and properties that he owned. A few weeks later, I found out that he filed for bankruptcy a few days before our reunion.

[TickleMyTesla]

I think that's just fine at least he wasn't a scammer or something terrible.

[DilDoDabbins]

Yeah, it could be worse if he is a scammer. TickleMyTesla

[MikeInShiningArmor]

If you want to know whether the guy is a liar or not. If he tells you that he owns a business, try and ask him what kind of business he owns.

[daddyslittleG1rl]

Not sure that will work if the person that you're talking to is a professional con-man.

[elatederic]

daddyslittleG1rl there is a tell that they're a conman. You just have to know what it is.

[Softandwet]

I was once asked out by a guy that I didn't know does multilevel marketing. He was showing off the cars that he "owns" the places that he's been going to, etc...

[BunnyPeachShang]

Does he actually owns those cars and been through different places in the world?

[Softandwet]

SupaPussy789 that is probably his motive in showing me those cars hoping that I'll be eager to join in their business. BunnyPeachShang nah, I don't think he owns all of them for all I know some them could be just props.

[Alivens]

So how many times does that guy ask you out?

[AliveAngels]

I don't know why people do this certain kind of thing that will only affect his reputation if he keeps on bragging something that he doesn't own or have?

[Jansa90]

Did your date lie about something that made you believe him? Or did you lied about something on your dates or partners?

[GraceJEAN]

Maybe it's his profession anyway to lie his way out of success so he will look great and extraordinary.

[StoveLove]

I only know someone who lied about his status and told me his single but I have found his real profile and he has a wife and kids.

[pamela76]

How did you find his real profile? Did you stalk him so you can arrive with an answer about your date?

[smilebaby]

Been with a girl who told me his father is a cop so I won't think about bedding her lol. She admitted that it was a lie since she wants to be safe if she doesn't trust the guy.

[Amethyst54]

Does it mean that she trusts you already since she admitted that she lied? I still hope you bed her lol.

[Airglax]

So what's the job of her dad? Were you able to find out what it is or you broke up with her because of it?

[Movievestre]

I had a friend who dated a guy who told her that his rich. Found out later that the place that he says that is owned by his parents is the house that he was house sitting for.

[Teanett]

How did you find out that he was only house sitting his so-called house?

[Movievestre]

A Lot of people told me that, even his friends. Teanett

[Teanett]

Really? I think that is really true. Movievestre

[AirAngelsAmaze]

I worked with a guy before who used a different name or an alias because he was a scam artist. He would ask different people to lend him money and after a month or two he would leave and move to another city and start all over.

[AirAngelsAmaze]

There is one person who knew him before, she said that he will scam people then he will fade away.

[InsightChic]

AirAngelsAmaze Really? like he will offer you something and he will get your money then he will just disappear?

[AirAngelsAmaze]

Yeah, and that is totally ridiculous! InsightChic

[SaltBabyFlavor]

I once had a roommate whose dad was a con man. According to her they once moved to three different states in a single year because of his "business".

[Saltinte]

Was her dad still doing it when the two of you met or he was laying low already?

[SaltBabyFlavor]

I don't know, after she left the dorm I didn't have any news on her. Saltinte

[DanniMoon]

I have a friend way back in college she was transferee actually, and she kept flexing her photos that she traveled to the other countries and we found out that she is gold digger, she had a sugar daddy actually her old friends told us that. But we don’t care, it's her life btw.

[DanniMoon]

JoeyBaby our friend didn't do that to us, it was the opposite as she would always buys the food when we're going out. lol.

[JoeyBaby]

Your friend is a rich kid ithen. I hope I have like that kind of friend,lol DanniMoon

[TickleMyTesla]

I really hoped she saved some money for her from the allowances she got from her sugar daddy. it's hard to maintain their lifestyle. they are so used to luxury DanniMoon