Moving In too Quickly

[independentG]

What do you think is the most common problem when your partners move in too quickly or live together immediately?
Mine is you fight about the bills every month.

[Dianawest]

When both of you are too lazy to do household chores. I had an ex before who is so hooked on his video games and can't do chores because of it.

[Dianawest]

Sometimes games replaces us but we need to be open and tell them our sexual desire so they can stop playing.

[independentG]

I can't stand to those guy who really addict to the video games Dianawest

[Dianawest]

Me either, because it's turning me off. independentG

[kissmeback]

Dianawest is right about the chores thing. It really sucks when you suddenly find out that the person that you're seeing was a total slob.

[QueefPat]

What kind of a slob was he? Was he the type who would make the entire place dirty or he has poor hygiene.

[independentG]

Have you met a person who is a total slob? kissmeback

[Dianawest]

It's annoying right? kissmeback

[lovestudder]

It would be finding out and being annoyed with each others quirks or strange things that they do.

[iwantsexnowplease]

What are some of the things that easily bother you? Are you the type of person who wants things to be done in a certain way?

[lovestudder]

Maybe I am that type of personas it really annoys me when someone is disorganized with their things.

[hulagirlsexsexyum]

Why did the two of you fought for the monthly bills? Did you ask her to pay for an entire month even if she hasn't lived there yet for an entire month?

[punkchick]

What you've said is a valid reason if we're talking about the first month. But for the succeeding ones, it might be something entirely different.

[independentG]

hulagirlsexsexyum No, I didn't ask her to pay but sometimes we need to share and split the bill so it's much more manageable to deal with it rather than paying it all by yourself.

[TickleMyTesla]

I think if no one knows how to cook then it will be a problem especially when you're both dealing a difficult time like what we're having now.

[Saltinte]

That will be a problem and I think they're just going to eat microwave foods if they don't know how to cook.

[shumwap]

So do you know how to cook or you just rely on take away or food deliveries for your meals?

[independentG]

TickleMyTesla Both of you should learn how to cook, that is very necessary you know.

[melaniamania]

I guess it would be the basics like the toilet seat being covered with pee, the way you supposed to do put the tissue roll, and leaving your clothes all over the place.

[Clitcomander]

So what's the proper way to put a tissue roll on its holder? Is it over or under?

[melaniamania]

Over is the proper way. There are lots of video explanations regarding this topic. What about you, how do you put the tissue roll?

[independentG]

You would be very annoyed if you found a person who usually does that. melaniamania

[jackass]

Boundary issues especially if you can't keep private stuff to yourself and they often snoop around in your phone, emails, etc. You don't have enough control on your life and you both need to share it.

[jackass]

crystalinejoy yeah, You are on that, but I think we need to be private too. but of course not all the time.

[jackass]

Yes, that is what I am trying to say. dagift2womens

[crystalinejoy]

Yes of course, we should be discreet if we have to. jackass

[Jansa90]

Maybe if one of you is still used or caught up in living as a single person where your partner goes home late at night with his friends rather than spending time with you at home.

[OreoEater789]

I would suggest that you break up with a guy who would do such a thing. Jansa90

[Jansa90]

Yes, and we usually do that before. PennyTration

[Jansa90]

My friends told me that too, like a lot of times. and I listen to them in the end. OreoEater789

[H3r3foryou]

I've been with a guy who would often leave the dishes that he used in the sink since that's what he did when he was living by himself.

[LiquidAss]

So if he's living by himself and doesn't do the dishes, How can the dishes be cleaned up? Unless it's disposable so he could just throw it away.

[H3r3foryou]

He only washes it when it's piled up. I can't imagine him living a life with no one around to do the dishes for him.

[RachelSiryn]

When both of you are too lazy to do household chores. I had an ex before who is so hooked on his video games and can't do chores because of it.

Definitely LAZY partners who is not responsible to do household duties and don't know how to fix the bed and flush the toilet too.

[W3tThet1p]

Have you been with a lazy partner before also that's why you can relate to her also?

[kelly77]

Yeah, a lazy partner needs a maid to do all her stuff and we are not that person.

[Dianawest]

It's so easy right? and they can't do it properly.@RachelSiryn

[ChristineOh]

[rumdrum]

That will be a problem especially if you are looking and wanting to pleasure yourself haha.

[Alivens]

rumdrum You must be having a lot of alone time that's why you thought of masturbating hahaha.

[ChristineOh]

Are you horny too? rumdrum

[XYZKate]

I think it's only a problem if our partner does not know anything and I will just rely on his/her partners back to do all the responsibilities in the house. That for me smells trouble.

[FedoraTheExplora]

So do you know your way around the house and the kitchen or you're a clueless one as well?

[GoobleHipur]

I think you should teach her stuff so your partner will learn something from you.

[JoeyBaby]

If they don't have enough money for basic necessities and we have a great shortage for tissue rolls lol.

[DilDoDabbins]

Why not just install a bidet on your toilet so that you can just wash your ass rather than rely on tissue paper.

[Airglax]

Just be resourceful and pour water on your ass and clean it with soap.

[MikeInShiningArmor]

I once dated a girl who wanted to move with me because I have a washing machine and dryer on my place.

[cutestman]

Have you invited her to your place and accepted it?

[Blockro]

Is that his only reason to move with you? I think she also wants your dick lol.

[DanniMoon]

Did you guy's live in together?