Fire Starter

[Airglax]

If you're in a long term relationship, what are some of the things that you do to keep the spark alive?

[Movievestre]

Still go out on dates and maybe try some role play during the date. Like you pretend that you're strangers, etc...

[Saltinte]

We kind do those kinds of things acting like strangers on dates and even do a little roleplaying in bed too. We usually think of things to ****e things up together.

[punkchick]

Pretending as strangers on a date? That would look so idiotic. You would only be like fooling yourselves when doing that role play. But I agree with the role playing in the bed. That would be nice to have.

[kizliak]

I think that the roleplaying thing just might work too. Who knows? I might try that soon!

[1nytstand]

We go places and discover new food and culture. Trust me, it's much better than sex

[dagift2womens]

But if you go to places, it's impossible not to have sex to keep the fire burning as well lol

[PieFun]

dagift2womens I think she's talking about going to places in which they would be staying there for a couple of days and not just a short trip and find a spot to fuck and leave

[sexualdepth]

What a wonderful idea! After discovering those new food and culture, you would also discover the high expenses when the bill of credit card comes. Trust me on that, too. lol.

[AirAngelsAmaze]

Try to keep things interesting inside and outside of the bedroom by trying out new things

[AglowReportsDari]

What if your partner is not that adventurous in the bedroom? What are you going to do, then?

[smilebaby]

I agree. If the relationship gets boring, breaking up and looking for a new and fun -partner is not the solution (because I've been there), I agree AirAngelsAmaze that it takes two of you to think of other interesting things even if it's not sex-related.

[HearAlive]

How adventurous can you or willing to be when it comes to sex? Will it be a sky is the limit kind of thing, or there are things that you're never going to try

[elatederic]

Try listing each of your bucket-list then enumerate each that could be possible for you both to enjoy. I've tried that before with someone, we did rock climbing, hiking, and traveling overseas.

[InsightChic]

How many items were you able to strikeout of your bucket list before you broke up with her?

[iwantsexnowplease]

Looks like you were on the adventurous type of a man. But you know what? Most women would not like those adventurous types of things. We want shopping, going to the salons, and all other girly type of things. If I were your girlfriend then nothing on the bucket list would be in common. lol.

[loveofmylife101]

How many items are still on your list? Maybe I can help you accomplishing some of them

[SaltBabyFlavor]

Never been in a relationship that can be considered as a long one. Most of them end after a couple of months

[TickleMyTesla]

Why so? Could it be that neither of you doesn't like long-term relationships?

[Dianawest]

What was the longest relationship have you ever been in?

[GraceJEAN]

So what can you conclude from that? Do you think that it is already a trend? If that is so, then there is something wrong with it. Do you believe that the issue is not you?

[Alivens]

We used to try and not see each other for a couple of days in order for us to miss each other

[VaginalDestruction]

That actually helps a lot. Imagine a week or days of not seeing each other? You know what happens next, awesome rough sex when you see each other again lol

[RachelSiryn]

Try not to see each other in a few months; that would be better as you would miss each other so much.

[MikeInShiningArmor]

Revisit the places we used to go or go to new places, just the two of us.

[Infomarry]

Does it mean that if there are people on those places you're going to tell them leave? lmao

[cristel]

Does it mean that you're going to hate those places when the two of you break up?

[Daisy54]

And you're going to avoid them once the two of you have broken up? lol

[meowmeowbark]

Have some fights with him.
Yes, that is a proven way in order not to make the relationship boring.
In this way, there would be some diversions with your perfect relationship.
Of course, do not make it too serious; just the petty ones.

[PrincessGail]

I could relate. With my past boyfriend, fights were common. I guess that most young couples are into fighting? Or maybe, that was just the two of us. But, even my friends do fight with their boyfriends.

[OreoEater789]

Fights are inevitable as to any kind of relationship. Consider even hookups, you sometimes tend to get in a fight with your partner. It's best to just move on with your life and stay focused.

[ruby78]

What kind of fights are we talking about here? Are you thinking of just pissing him off?