What makes a girl a good or bad flirt? How do you flirt exactly

[Tastyrese]

I have a very fun and flirty personality so I have been known to flirt a lot. Which I personally don't like about myself because I think it gives off the wrong message. So I was recently talking to a guy friend of mine and I told him I wanted to stop being like this but I don't know how. So my question is, how do you flirt. And what makes a good flirt and what makes a bad flirt?

[AglowReportsDari]

A good flirt is just a good conversationalist. If your good at talking your most likely a good flirt. But basically, a good flirt keeps an interesting conversation, and also makes sure that playful touching is involved. If you want to ever build up to a kiss, you'll have to be comfortable with each others' touch

[MikeInShiningArmor]

What kind of a flirt are you? Because if you're the type who's a bit touchy when talking to people, then that's the thing that you should lessen

[kittycat123]

But that's what you guys want more lol

[punkchick]

You're absolutely right! kittycat123 lol

[kittycat123]

Can't really figure out guys sometimes

[DilDoDabbins]

If you want to flirt less, why not just ignoring people instead of always interacting with them? It would be like hitting two birds with a stone, since you would stop doing the thing that you hate and people around you would assume that you're the anti social type lol

[H3r3foryou]

And they would be surprised that you're quite a flirt if there is someone who's brave enough to chat with you?

[shumwap]

And that's how you alienate people lol

[DilDoDabbins]

It's better to let them know that you're not interested in some particular person.

[QueefPat]

Why would you ask that question if you already mentioned that you're the flirthy type?

[lovestudder]

I flirt with someone through a good conversation but I make sure that the would approach me first.

[elatederic]

If I approach you in person, what do you want to talk about?

[lovestudder]

Anything that you want, honey lol

[TickleMyTesla]

A bad flirt is someone who always end up getting laughed at or the person that you're flirting with suddenly leaves you with a really confused look

[Clitcomander]

I would feel bad for that person if he always ends up getting the latter

[hulagirlsexsexyum]

Being a good flirt is not being straightforward on what you wanna happen next. You can be there just smiling and catching this hottie looking at you could be a great start.

[rumdrum]

And what would be your next move once he notices you?

[Blockro]

Give him "The Look!" Eyes are the key to flirting, put on a smile and wola!

[meowmeowbark]

Maybe you can show us what you mean when you say "The Look"

[Blockro]

meowmeowbark I guess you already have an idea about it. That flirty, you look cute look.

[meowmeowbark]

Alright now I get it. Lol

[sexsexgirlnowme]

There's no reason to quit. I wish I could effortlessly flirt!

[scrumptious1]

Why? You think that you're a bad flirt?

[sexsexgirlnowme]

Can't you read what I just said? I can't flirt effortlessly.

[cutestman]

Lol. Me to don't know how

[punkchick]

Dont judge, just go on naturally thats all you need

[FedoraTheExplora]

The only time you would end up getting slapped or getting a drink thrown to you is when you're really bad at flirting cutestman

[cutestman]

FedoraTheExplora I think that depends on the woman that we're flirting with also. Even if we're a good flirt, but she doesn't like being flirted with he would still end up getting slapped or doused with a drink

[punkchick]

I think, it would be better to know if that person you're flirting with is also into you, because they are not sorry but you'll just like a donkey.