Modern Romance

[FedoraTheExplora]

There are people out there who often say that relationships can be overrated sometimes. Just wanted to ask the members: how long does it take to love someone

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

It depends on the person really. For me it would usually take a month or two into the relationship before I realize that I love the person already

[FedoraTheExplora]

Is this a personal experience?

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

Yes, it is based from my own experience

[FedoraTheExplora]

alright sister you do your own thing

[PennyTration]

Those people who say it is overrated are the ones who are just jaded or tired of being lied to

[PennyTration]

I really don't know. For me it might be around 3 or 4 major ones. H3r3foryou

[H3r3foryou]

PennyTration If I was heart broken for that number of times I would also consider romance as over rated.

[PennyTration]

So you're thinking that it is overrated or not?

[W3tThet1p]

If you guys started of as mere friends, I think it would take 6 months to get to love him.

[W3tThet1p]

Nice to know that I'm not the only one who's takes her time in falling in love

[sexsexgirlnowme]

She said mere friends, so 6 months is enough.

[W3tThet1p]

Yeah and that is based on my experience,

[Freew0man82]

This is kinda hard though, because sometimes its hard to distinguish if its love or just an infatuation. But I'll give it three months to make sure i really love the person.

[Freew0man82]

Have the both of you been in that situation before?

[H3r3foryou]

I agree with what you said here, sometimes feelings are really deceiving.

[Freew0man82]

not only that, they are manipulating as well

[SupaPussy789]

Sometimes though men can pretend while you are still in that phase of getting to know each other, It's sometimes so deceiving. To buy me enough time and to know if I really love the person I usually have a spun of three months.

[TickleMyTesla]

I think the word that you need is span and not spun

[W3tThet1p]

i hate guys who pretend to be your friend just so they can date you in the end

[SupaPussy789]

that sounds like most guys

[OreoEater789]

There's no definite way to know how long it takes to fall in love with someone, that's going to depend on the factors such as attraction, time spent, social circle, friends etc.

[OreoEater789]

H3r3foryou you said it right. It's like the first phase.

[FedoraTheExplora]

Based on your previous relationships, how long did it take for you to fall in love?

[OreoEater789]

The fastest one that I could remember is about 2 weeks?

[dagift2womens]

One night stands are as overrated as relationships anyways.

[dagift2womens]

BlackmanAndRobbin I guess some, on rare occasions.

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

Guess that you haven't been in that position before?

[dagift2womens]

Yes, never had a one night stand that turned into something serious

[PennyTration]

For me it would be hard to love someone specially if I'm not attracted to him in the very first place.

[kittycat123]

Don't tell me that you're one of them who says that they haven't been in love

[meowmeowbark]

kittycat123 I find those kind of people annoying

[kittycat123]

Why is that?

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

As long a we really get along well loving him wound't be a problem. I guess 3 months is enough.

[Softandwet]

That depends on the connection between the two of you

[scrumptious1]

There's no definitive way 5to tell how long, but give or take a few months if the attraction is strong between the two of you

[melaniamania]

there is no exact time, it will happen when it's time to happen

[antitrump]

It actually depends on the person. You'll just know it because you'll feel it just like that.

[SaltBabyFlavor]

So how many days (weeks) was the fastest one for you?

[antitrump]

eerrrr i dont actually remember, I think the shortest was a month

[Snugglebear]

I think that feeling makes you high that you can't no longer remember anything.

[hulagirlsexsexyum]

If we have that instant connection and attraction I think it would only take 2 months.

[daddyslittleG1rl]

I guess this is reasonable enough.

[hulagirlsexsexyum]

Because you don't want the guy wait for so long and we can't control our feelings. It just suddenly pops out