Leather whips, yay or nay?

[mary12]

People often use leather whips and although I love BDSM but leather whips are something I do not enjoy. My domineer guy is a big fan of leather whips and being a submissive I cannot say no to him. What should I do? Leather whips really give me a turn off.

[crackbitch]

Ewww that’s utter rubbish. In sex, in life, in everything, you can always refuse to take part in things you don’t feel like. Before agreeing to BDSM, you should talk to your partner and highlight the things you are uncomfortable with and then begin. Leather whips can be very hurtful and especially if you are not a huge fan of them. There are other toys that you can enjoy.

[Mia1]

Leather whips do make a great part of BDSM but they are not necessary. BDSM goes beyond then just all of that and it doesn’t have to inflict pain at all times. God, when would people move past the idea of BDSM and whips being synonymous? THEY ARE NOT. It’s not about a set of rules or guidelines that make the use of leather whips mandatory. It can all be everything playful and nothing painful. This lack of understanding really pissess me off. Listen to yourself. You clearly state that you are not enjoying, then why the hell would you get involved in all of it? Stop dreaming about the fifty shades of Grey and get into real life. It’s not how it looks in porn or the movies.

[heidigrace]

Leather whips are the real, what in the world would BDSM about be then? Me and my partner always utilize this perfect tool whenever we want to have a little pain with pleasure. All tops live for leather whips. Just know how to use them otherwise it can all go very wrong. I mean dont target the sensitive parts for example, hmmm the eyes.

[Nigga222]

Have you 2 discussed the kind of whips? You can actually have other kinds of stuff like light floggers that do not cause that much pain. It’s obvious that a certain kind of leather whip could be very harsh so you know, check out the market and see if anything of your liking is available?

[spoliebrat]

You’re the submissive so you set the rules, as simple as that. Whenever I have been the submissive, I have made my expectations and the things that I want to be used very clear so that the scene doesn’t get disturbed and that I am comfortable with what I do.