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My boyfriend is really into BDSM. When I first knew about it, I didn't mind. I even let him do BDSM when we have sex. So far what I've experienced was hair-pulling and hard spanking. But now, he wants to put a blindfold while I'm handcuffed to the bed. I don't really feel like doing it because I'm quite scared of what he'll do to me. Care to share your thoughts on this? Have you been blindfolded and handcuffed to the bed when having sex?
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Seems sketchy. But exciting at the same time. You'll never guess what he'll do to you since you are blindfolded and you can't even stop him from doing whatever he wants because you are handcuffed. I have never experienced this but I would like to if given the chance.-
If this would be tickle torture while I'm blindfolded and handcuffed well, he has to change the sheet right after because I'm sure that I might piss myself all over the bed. -
Oh, it's not sketchy at all. When you're blindfolded and you'll let your partner be in charge, he's going to pleasure you with a lot of sensation play but it's your choice if you want him to go all the way, as in he's going to fuck you hard with your blindfold and handcuffs on.
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I have tried it and what I can say is that it is really thrilling. You don't know if he is going to pleasure or torture you. Anyway, you do not have anything to worry about because it's your boyfriend anyway. Surely, he won't do anything that will harm you in a non-sexual way.Comment
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I tried getting myself tied up and blindfolded but it is definitely my boyfriend but someone I've hooked up with, says he's into BDSM so I'd decided that I'd try my first BDSM experience with him. He made me cum multiple times and I've never felt so happy in my entire life! -
True. I would trust my boyfriend in whatever we would do with me. I would just wait for the surprises that he would gonna perform with me. I guess that it would be so exciting.
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My ex-girlfriend tied me up once and it excites me that much, I let her be in control of me and it all ended perfectly. I don't know what came up to her that day, she just dominated me when we're in my room. We had three rounds because of that and it sure was fulfilling!Comment
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It sounds like you two had a really great time. It kinda reminds me of my sexual encounter with someone who blindfolded me but did not tie me up, I'm talking about a random hookup and he did sensation play with me. His hands are caressing me gently and uses his tongue and it really excites me that it had actually made me cum a couple of times. I wish someone would do that to me again. -
VaginalDestruction I am sure she gave you a mind blowing performance!
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I've experienced that for many times already. What can I say? I like to be submissive. Maybe you should try it too even for experience purposes only.Comment
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If you don't really feel like it, you can always say no. Just explain your reason and I am sure that he'll understand. Not everyone is really fascinated in hardcore BDSM anyway.Comment
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Blindfolding and handcuffing are fun to do while having sex. I already experienced that and I can say that that's my best experience so far. When I'm blindfolded, I get excited about what he's going to do with me next.Comment
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That's such a nice experience from you tho, I do not want to experience blindfolding, it's best if I can handcuff my partner but me? Nope, I'm scared that he might go rough on me. -
Well, aren't you scared that he might kill you or use something that can inflict physical pain? I am surprised that most people right now all cares for sexual stuff and not their own safety.
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Just agree with it. I am sure you would gonna experience pure bliss while blindfolded and handcuffed. I guess that he would gonna fuck you hard on that moment.Comment
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Handcuffed with the hands placed on front is preferred than the hands which were handcuffed at the back. It is easier to move if the hands are placed on the front side.Comment
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Looks like I want to be blindfolded and handcuffed then the man would do anything he wants to do with me! I could imagine that it would be a hell-like sex.Comment
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I could not help but imagine that someone is being fucked real hard while they were handcuffed, blindfolded and the hair being pulled.Comment
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That's not only a nice situation to imagine but also a very wild experience! I've been blindfolded and handcuffed for several times and what I can say is that those times are my best experiences. The feeling of curiosity and excitement mixes and increases my arousal. I do suggest that you guys try it as well.
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I never experienced having a sex that being blindfolding and handcuffing. that sounds fun btw. I hope my boyfriend will do that to me.Comment
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Blindfolding and Handcuffing makes me excited. my partner did that to me.Comment
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Oh this is fun. It sounds scary as you won't be able to see him or his actions and you're tied to bed but that's the fun! You'll get to feel his touch and get surprises about his actions and tease!!! Try it and you'll discover a new way of having fun in bedOriginally posted by LiquidAss View PostComment
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if the boyfriend is someone she knew for a long time, this BDSM should not be a problem. But honestly, I do not feel pleasure in BDSM, or maybe my last guy is not that good. I feel bothered and pain all over, had to pretend all along. -
BeautifulAglow you got it right. if it's someone she is already with for a long time, there is no need to worry. It's not that the guy will torture him.
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