Any BDSM moves that went wrong?

[AnniePath]

I was tied down to the bed and blindfolded too, my now ex and I were trying a new massage candle. Lafco Chamomile Lavander flavor! It had essential oils in it so it smelled good. everything was going great up until he dripped it on my exposed vulva. When the hot candle hit my clit and, I just lost it! It hurt so bad and of course it was not the kind of good pain. And to think I was tied down. He was scrambling to untie me, I was desperately trying to get it off screaming in pain. I ended up sitting and crying in a cold bath for a hours. That was the worse!

[PennyTration]

The same experience but no candles involved. While I was tied on the bed blindfolded, he suddenly fucked me in the ass without warning. I cannot do anything but to cry.

[PennyTration]

TickleMyTesla Next time I will peg him for sure.

[crzyyouandme]

He sounds like an ass. You deserve better than that.

[PennyTration]

crzyyouandme I know but I still love him.

[FedoraTheExplora]

PennyTration AnniePath It seems that both your guys are complete assholes for not being careful. Hoped that you decided to dump them because of what happened to the both of you

[MikeInShiningArmor]

I think that the guys has no idea with what they were doing that's why they ended up hurting their partners

[FedoraTheExplora]

I hope you are not also like them MikeInShiningArmor

[MikeInShiningArmor]

FedoraTheExplora I'm 100% sure that I'm not like them.

[DilDoDabbins]

The guy was tied up and bent over while in a spread eagle position and wanted me to use a riding crop on his butt. It was my first time doing such a thing and I ended up hitting him on the lower part of his butt cheeks and accidentally hitting his balls at the same time. Let's just say that it was the last time that we tried it

[SaltBabyFlavor]

And I bet you weren't able to continue the sex after that little "accident".

[OreoEater789]

Reading your post made me feel like my balls were hit by the riding crop as well

[JenniferFray]

You guys need to be extra careful next time.

[crzyyouandme]

Yep, prevention is better than cure.

[LiquidAss]

Me and my guy were tipsy and decided to have some bondage fun. So I ended up being the one who's cuffed in the bed. Since he really loves eating my pussy he was down there for a few minutes, and as he was about to put his dick inside me he suddenly passes out and falls on top of me. It took me a couple of minutes before I was able to remove the cuffs and roll him over the bed. Luckily enough he wasn't that heavy that's why I didn't end up being crushed by him

[Freew0man82]

You're really lucky since you didn't end up just sleeping under him while being cuffed in bed

[kizliak]

How were you able to remove the cuffs?

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

We were doing it a little rougher than usual (I enjoy being manhandled from time to time). So while I was pinned down in the bed by him, he accidentally bit my nips harder than usual which made me knee his junk. Spent the rest of the night apologizing to each other and deciding to have a safe word when we're doing it rough

[VaginalDestruction]

How long was he holding his junk after you kneed him?

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

VaginalDestruction I don't know. What kind of question is that? Lol

[kissmeback]

This happened a few years back, my boyfriend at that time suggested that we should experiment on the bed. He wanted me to tie him up facing downward, gag him and whip him while I was pegging him. I asked him if he was sure about it and if he was any experienced on BDSM(I am a dominatrix at heart so I already experienced being on this kind of play before we did this) and he answered me yes so I did what he told me to do. So I inserted the strap-on on his butt while whipping him at the same time, I heard him whimper and he begins screaming that it hurts (although I applied a lot of lube). Apparently, it was his first time and he lied to me, he told me that he just came up with the idea because of some porn he watched. The worst part was that he didn't clean his ass so the strap-on was covered with sh*t and the smell did not help either.

[W3tThet1p]

Airglax he might be thinking that kissmeback wouldn't agree to peg him if he says that it would be his first time doing it

[GoobleHipur]

That was a messed up experienced. I almost puke when I read the last part.

[jackass]

Disgusting and funny. Better luck next time!

[Snugglebear]

The stories that you shared here are one of the many reasons why I'm not that comfortable in doing bdsm

[Clitcomander]

But if you're going to do it with someone who's well experienced, is it still a no?

[Houservit]

You have to try it before saying that you are uncomfortable with it.

[Teanett]

I do not think that BDSM is for me. I am not saying that I am not open for it, I just fear that it at some point, it will escalate to something violent. (you know, the choking etc...)

[BunnyPeachShang]

That is why couples use safewords so that they would know when to stop if a partner has reached his or her limits

[NinaMcAdams]

We tried the rope tying thing and then he couldn't untie me afterward. Hot but, bothersome. I like normal sex better.

[Movievestre]

So what did he do in order to free you?

[JoeyBaby]

We have this riding crop and he was going to whip my inner thighs... he missed my thighs and got my cunt instead. We almost broke up that night.

[AirAngelsAmaze]

I can't imagine the pain that you must had undergone that night. I bet that was the last time you both did that,

[AglowReportsDari]

What made you decide not to break up with him?

[independentG]

You know men can get dominated too, right? Maybe it would work better if women are the ones tying us down to the bed and having their way with us.

[SpoiledTeaTasty]

It depends, there are women out there who like being the dominant one but that also depends if their partner wants to be submissive.